We have a lot of opinions we strongly adhere to. If anyone is going to try to come into our ask box regarding an opinion we have, just please do not. We will accept respectful reblogs and off-anon asks. Please do not come to us asking "why is [item] on your DNI," "why do you/don't you accept [item]," etc; everything is/will be explained with nuance here.
We know we can't actually keep anyone from interacting, and we know we can't force anyone to read this page, but we do want to make it clear that those under the DNI section will be blocked on sight. We also reserve the right to block anyone not on this list for any reason, and we respectfully ask that you don't ask why you've been blocked if we do block you. "I didn't read the BYI" is not only not an excuse, but a violation of our boundaries.
Some explanations might get sort of long; for that, we apologize.
We Support...
All good-faith identities, including mspec gays/lesbians, he/him lesbians, she/her gay men, and other "contradictory" labels; feminine trans men and masculine trans women, boygirls and girlboys (y'all are so fckin cool /gen), etc
Reclaimation of slurs, and using them as identities. This is not limited to just the word "queer." We genuinely believe transmascs can call themselves "fag/faggot" and "tranny." If this bothers you, please just don't talk to us about it, block us if you have to, but we just don't believe those slurs are limited to transfems.
All forms of plurality, including POSIC+ hoards, endogenic systems, tulpamancy, etc.
Transmascs having their own word to define their unique oppression, such as transandrophobia and transmisandry.
Those with paraphilias, however, please see the next section for an explanation.
Self-diagnosis, for multiple reasons. Mostly because we understand why someone would rather not pursue a professional diagnosis for something stigmatized or difficult to diagnose, such as autism, a personality disorder, or a dissociative disorder. We also understand being wary of professionals and not wanting to interact with psychiatrists/psychologists etc.
ALL kinds of sex work, including prostitution.
Selfshipping, which is the act of shipping oneself with a fictional character. This is as long as it doesn't fall into "proship" territory.
HAZARDQUEERS PLEASE INTERACT.
We do NOT Support/DNI...
TERFs, SWERFs, and other radfems. This does include transmasc-exclusionary transfems ("baeddels"), as they are radical feminists.
Transmeds/"truscum," considering we're bodily a GNC transmasc.
Queerphobes in general, including but not limited to homophobes, biphobes, transphobes, enbiphobes, aphobes, arophobes, etc.
"Safequeer," as it is genuinely not safe for those questioning, and endogenic systems.
Anti-endos/sysmeds, anti-tulpa, or against non-traumagenic systems in general. We are a mixed-origin DID system, one origin is spontaneity, better known as "endogenic!" We may be a traumagenic, disordered, dissociative system; but when you say "endos are fake," that includes us. Even if we weren't partially endogenic, we would sill fully support endogenic systems. We also have a tulpa.
Those with paraphilias who act on them. We support those with paraphilias due to the fact that they can't really be controlled. However, interacting with/acting on paraphilias leaves victims, and even if it doesn't (such as drawn/animated material), it normalizes it. That said, We would prefer if those with paraphilias didn't interact in general for our own personal comfort, especially if yours is one of the "big three" (zoo, pedo, necro) or incest. If you're a paraphile who doesn't act on it or talk about it at all, then that's... fine... but interact at your own risk.
Proshippers, see above (yes we include proshipping under "interacting with/acting on paraphilias"). Yes, this includes if you're a proshipper to cope with trauma. If you don't label yourself either way, don't send an ask about this, we will make a judgment on our own time.
Racists, xenophobes, anti-Semites, neo-Nazis, right-wing, pro-cop etc. We don't think we need to add nuance to this one.
Anti-abortion/pro-lifers. If you're pro-life, you're anti-bodily autonomy.
"Kin For Fun," sometimes seen as "KFF," is a mockery of otherkinity, therianthropy, and other forms of alterhumanity. We have no issue with choosing a kintype voluntarily, or even as a coping mechanism, as long as your identity is serious. We don't have an issue with choosing a kintype for coping, as long as it's an identify-as and not identify-with identity ("that is me," versus "that's like me"). KFF individuals tend to be very ableist and claim that serious and/or psychological 'kin/alterhumans are all delusional (implying that delusional people are somehow "lesser" than those who aren't). Some even mock the beliefs of spiritual 'kin/alterhumans, calling for "proof," or it's not real.
Transx or transID. Not only do these labels misuse the "trans-" prefix, but they're harmful in general and play into stereotypes of disorders, disabilities, and races (such as some transrace IDs); and equate queerness to pedophilia (in the case of transage). This post from onisia on tumblr explains it well, and includes multiple examples. One thing you may notice that all these pride flags and even some terms have in common is that they're all "cute," pastel, and made to look "desireable." You may notice terms for wanting a disability, that the person does in fact have, to be "worse" due to stigma (presumably to be taken more seriously). As this is understandable, it's still harmful because it plays into stereotypes of disabilities and normalizes stigma. We feel for the individuals who feel the need to identify with/as these terms, but if you genuinely feel you "should" have a disorder (such as autism, ADHD, DID, etc), look into informed self-diagnosis. Try not to self-diagnose physical disabilities, though.